100 Tips for Nannies and Families

Remember that episode of Friends when Rachel hires a male babysitter for baby Emma, and Ross is stunned by her decision? 

When most people think of babysitters, they usually think of females, who are considered to be caring, nurturing and, well, maternal.  But many guys thrive in caretaking roles - as teachers, coaches, mentors and babysitters.

 If you’re looking to hire a babysitter, consider what qualities are most important to you.  For instance:

•  If you’re a single mother, you might want to hire a male babysitter to serve as a consistent and positive male role model.
• If your children are athletic and interested in sports, consider a babysitter who shares those same interests.  Your football-obsessed young son might enjoy having a male babysitter who is (or was) on the high school football team.
• If you have daughters who are into princesses and fairy tales, a male babysitter might not be the best choice for them - or they might enjoy having a “prince” to join their princess games.  (I know plenty of dads, uncles and other men who patiently have tea parties or get their hair styled by the little ladies in their lives.)

There are many things to consider that are clearly more important than your babysitter’s gender.  Are they kind to your children?  Do you trust them?  Do they have excellent experience and references?  Are they smart and responsible?  Do your kids like them?  Will they do the things your children enjoy - whether that’s building forts, playing tag or doing craft projects? If so, hire them - regardless of their gender.